09: NATIVITY AND HUMILITY

 

A BIRTH UNNOTICED

“She brought forth a son, her first born,

   whom she wrapped in his swaddling-clothes,

   and laid him in a manger,

   because there was no room for them in the inn.” (Lk 2:7)

 

Jesus, Mary, Joseph

 

EFFECTIVENESS OF HUMILITY

“From that first day

   when you resolved to humble yourself before God,

   the better to understand,

your words have been heard.” (Dan 10:12)

 

“The donkey could do a thousand jobs,

so useful was he with his humility.”

(St Josemaría, Ut iumentum, IV)

 

“After his turns at the wheel,

   or whenever the master ordered,

   the poor beast would be released from his harness

      to carry a good-sized load

      from one place to another.

The quality of the load that had to be carried didn’t matter,

since the donkey, as soon as he felt the weight,

   always did his best.

Determined and diligent, without rocking from one side to the other,

the good beast never let the load fall to the ground,

   contented, without a whim.” (St Josemaría, Ut iumentum, IV)

 

Exinanivit semetipsum, formam servi accipiens.” (Phil 2:7)

 

PRAY FOR HUMILITY

“Let us ask the Lord for the virtue of humility,

   for genuine self-knowledge,

   for genuine self-surrender,

   for that giving of ourselves to God and,

   for love of God, giving of ourselves to the others,

   without making a fuss of the service we do,

which [service] is always little now matter how much we try

   because we receive more.” (St Josemaría)

 

BUT BE READY FOR IT

“For gold is tested in the fire,

and acceptable men in the furnace of humiliation.” (Sir 2:5)

 

HUMILITY IS IN THE DETAILS

“…an equal readiness to do little things for God

as to do great things for him.

The test of the sincerity of our devotion to God

   is found in our willingness to serve him in little things.

There the motive can only be supernatural;

in big things the motive may be sheer self-seeking.

This view means an end to the deliberate search

   for self-satisfaction in God’s service.

It means that we realize that it is God who should be satisfied.

‘I always do the things that please him’ (Jn 8:29).”

(E Boylan, The Spiritual Life of the Priest, 72)

 

AREAS WHERE HUMILITY THRIVES

Piety

Rectitude of Intention

Sincerity

Spirit of Service

 

SIMPLE BUT EXPRESSIVE WORDS

“I’m sorry.” (“By knowing how to acknowledge their failings to their children, parents will be better able to guide and correct them.” (CCC 2223))

“I made a mistake.”

“Thank you.”

 

HUMILITY IS ON CALVARY

“If we are men of faith

and have the mind of Christ,

we shall readily believe that we probably do more for souls

when on the cross of frustration,

than we are on the Thabor of sensible success.

No one can question our Lord’s zeal for souls;

yet he spent thirty years in obscurity in Egypt and Nazareth

and let his active life be cut short

   by the shameful Crucifixion.”

(E Boylan, The Spiritual Life of the Priest, 72)

 

MEEKNESS

“Learn of me because I am meek and humble of heart.” (Mt 11:29)

 

Meekness: the virtue by which one is enabled

   to master everything that falls under the heading of ‘anger’.

Meekness gives the power

   to restrain,

   to dominate,

   to channel

every kind of irritation, many times caused by some little

   hurt to our pride, or

   wound to our ego.

 

“A bruised reed he will not break,

and a dimly burning wick he will not quench.” (Is 42:1-4)

Remember: the adulterous woman; or the thief on the cross

 

LIKE A MULE

“Soy una mula, mi Niño, mi Niño,

pero te quiero, te quiero.

Cógeme de las orejas,

dame un beso y otro beso,

que yo no quiero besarte

que tendrás miedo.”

 

LITANY OF HUMILITY

“O Jesus, meek and humble of heart, hear me.

From the desire of being esteemed, deliver me, Jesus.

From the desire of being loved,

   of being extolled, …honored, …praised, …

   preferred to others, …consulted,…approved.

From the fear of being humiliated, …despised, …suffering rebukes, …

   calumniated, …forgotten, …ridiculed, …wronged, …suspected.

That others may be loved more than I,

Jesus grant me the grace to desire it.

That others may be esteemed more than I ….

That in the opinion of the world

   others may increase and I may decrease, …

   [that] others may be chosen and I set aside, …

   [that] others may be praised and I unnoticed, …

   [that] others may be preferred to me in everything, …

   [that] others become holier than I,

      provided that I may become as holy as I should.”

(Card Merry del Val)

 

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Revised 24 March 2005